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Ithinkwebothneedtoletgoofthepast,begratefulforwhatwehadforatime,learnfromourexperiences,andmoveonfromthere.
DearestJohn,wehavebeenthroughalottogether...Ihavealearnedalotaboutmyself,asyouhavelearntalotaboutyourself.Atthispoint,wearebothreadytograduatetothenextlevelinarelationship...Whatwehavelearned,whetherwhileweweretogether,orwhetherafter,throughlookingbackonhowwe'operated'together,willserveusinourfuturerelationships.
Ithasbeenmyexperience,thatallrelationshipsthatendaresimplyopeningthedoortoanotherlevelofjoy,andabetterrelationshipbuiltonwhatwehavelearntinthepast.SoIknowandtrustthatthereissomeoneouttherewhowillsupportyouinyourgrowthwhilelovingyouexactlythewayyouare...whichissomethingthatwewerenotdoingforeachother.Iconstantlyjudgedandcriticizedyou,inthesamemannerthatyoujudgedandcriticizedme...Outthereistheperfectpersonforyouthatwillloveyouandnotfindasinglethingtocriticizeaboutyouinthesamewaythatyouwillnotfindasinglethingtocriticizeaboutthem...Youwillacceptherassheis,evenwhileseeingthatsheisnot"perfect".